So in that case, how does one know when to or when not too believe in someone? Whether to believe in what they are or what they were before? Yes, change is the only constant thing in life. Everybody goes through it. It is imperative. Some find it hard to cope with it, while some give it a warn welcome. But do we really change?<\/p>\n
I have not been around in this world for a very long time, but I have been around enough to say\u00a0\u201cbeen there, done that\u201d<\/i>.<\/p>\n
And in doing so, I came across a lot of people who changed their course of life only to be seen as rebels or vigilante\u2019s, but were never accepted socially. The reason:\u00a0They changed for good<\/i>. But, I guess they could not do anything about their pasts. Because its gone, done and dead for good. All one can do, is sit back and think about all the chances he\/she\u00a0could have\u00a0<\/i><\/b>taken but\u00a0chose\u00a0<\/i><\/b>not to take.<\/p>\n
So what\u2019s the hard core truth about change? Is it possible for someone to truly turn a new leaf? If change were possible, wouldn\u2019t it take at least an year or so to happen? The answer is, well, change is possible\u2026 and I mean a drastic, and most of the times a life-altering change. But there\u2019s no rule of thumb about how long this kind of change would take to occur. I believe it depends on what the current surroundings are and in what kind of a state the people are in.<\/p>\n
Now, this should raise a doubt in the mind of all those \u201cexperienced\u201d people out there. The doubt that\u00a0\u201cif a change has occurred in a short period of time, and if someone has gone from being a thorn to a flower, than, is that kind of a change even possible in such short time; if it is, then how come we never see it coming?\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n
I think,<\/p>\n
A change of heart that happens faster than the system of justice in this world, than that change is never a true change and won\u2019t last for long<\/b>.<\/p>\n
Change is inevitable. It is quite possible, and positive, when we choose to be humble enough to see the places we are off from and are willing enough to change them, before they are changed for us. A lot of us refuse to see our own fault lines, some even dare not to draw them, we keep on blaming those around us for how we act or what we have turned in to. We don\u2019t listen to critical feedback and never appreciate it coming from our true critics, we keep our hearts and our souls frozen. That\u2019s where we lag behind. Never wait until the world starts crashing down on you and you\u2019re forced to change (for bad). So, open your hearts and clear your mind, and start listening to what the world is saying to you, who knows, maybe then you just might have your<\/p>\n
\u2018aha\u2019<\/b><\/i><\/p>\n
moment.<\/p>\n An old saying in Urdu, well\u2026still valid! “Kuttay ki dumm hamaisha tairhi rehti hai” I have seen people change over a new leaf from being no one. There are so many \u201cflowers\u201d around me which, at times, used to be conical thorns, but have now turned into ripe roses, willing to spread smiles on others. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":1594,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","_themeisle_gutenberg_block_has_review":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[777],"tags":[136,387,402,709],"wppr_data":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/tail-1480893_1280.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=184"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/184\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1594"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=184"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=184"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thedesiwriter.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=184"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![](\"http:\/\/68.media.tumblr.com\/tumblr_m49gq4TQhz1qbqkkno1_400.gif\")
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